Hi, my name is Pam and welcome to Conscious Bloom Transformation Coaching!

I am the founder of Conscious Bloom Transformation Coaching based in Durban, South Africa, offering my services as a certified Parenting Coach and Life Transformation Coach, incorporating my learnings as a Negative Emotional Therapy™ Practitioner, Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner and EFT/TFT Tapping Practitioner.

Born and raised in Durban, I married at the tender age of 20 and soon became an adoring mother of two angels, disguised as daughters! Whilst navigating my way through young motherhood, and then juggling parenthood and the strain of a demanding, unfulfilling job in the corporate world, I always had a deep knowing that one day my work would be in serving others… helping children… helping families around the world ♥

From a young age I had struggled with feelings of shyness, fear, guilt, shame, and self-doubt stemming from a traumatic childhood experience combined with a bout of bullying at school at a young age (I was that little girl with glasses and protruding teeth).

So, over the years I had attempted to implement practices of self-reflection, and positive affirmations to build my self-image and confidence, but unfortunately, they were sporadic, inconsistent and for the most part, ineffective.

I participated in an incredible life transformation coaching programme where powerful coaching techniques were not only used to help resolve issues from my past that were holding me back, but also to empower me to live in the now and to regain my zest for a fulfilling life.

It was through experiencing my own transformation, equipped with new skills to create a life filled with love, gratitude, self-worth, and optimism, that I had absolutely no doubt that my passion to serve and empower others through coaching had been well and truly ignited!

So began not only my personal transformation journey, but also my new career as a Life Transformation Coach – and subsequently my obsession to learn more and more about neuroscience, nervous system science, attachment science, generational patterns, emotional intelligence, and various other healing modalities such as hypnotherapy and emotional freedom technique.

Through my incredible experience of coaching parents with children who were suffering with anxiety disorders, my eyes were opened to just how many parents and children were struggling, day in and day out, feeling lost, desperate, and alone!

Driven by my desire to help support parents, my enthusiastic passion and love for children, and a heartfelt wish for a world where children grow into emotionally healthy, happy, confident, and empowered teens and adults, I was drawn to the work of the Jai Institute for Parenting whose mission is:

“to teach parents how to raise emotionally healthy children, without compromising limits, boundaries and values”.

Although parenthood is a profound experience filled with love, joy, and non-stop growth opportunities for both parent and child, it is also a journey filled with challenges, fears, self-doubt, uncertainties, and questions! As a young parent of two daughters, an aunt to twelve nieces and nephews, and now a grandparent of two grandsons (and a third on the way), here’s what I know for sure: raising kids is no easy task!!

Having navigated through parenthood, often without a clear roadmap, I’d often pondered why the role of a ‘parent’ isn’t treated like other roles which demand specific training and experience? To become a parent, there are no prerequisites, no training and we’re expected to instinctively know how to do it! It seems crazy, especially that nurturing a human being is arguably the most vital ‘role’ with the highest stakes in the entire world!

I certified as a Parenting Coach because I hold a heartfelt belief that children are precious blessings and being a parent is one of life’s greatest responsibilities and privileges bestowed upon us and help and support in this space is in short supply!!

I am truly honoured to guide parents onto the path of peaceful parenting that in addition to making peace, connection, and confidence as a parent possible, parents’ transformation has a profound and truly wonderful impact on their children, which ultimately creates harmony within homes – positively impacting one family at a time around the world! My dream come true ♥

I facilitate a very personal process – one which requires that I support my clients to delve within and immerse themselves in a journey of self-exploration to examine their feelings, beliefs, thoughts, and needs.  I am not a medical practitioner or a substitute for a psychologist or therapist – I do not diagnose, determine illnesses, conditions or give advice without consent. 

Just like sport coaches guide their teams to play their best game and lead them to victory, I use my skills and techniques as a Parenting / Life Transformation Coach, to lead my clients to play their best game in life, or lead them to victory in their parenting.

In my confidential and safe coaching sessions, we define what my client desires to achieve and then I assist by identifying problems that may be preventing him/her from achieving those desires.  My clients bring their personal goals/parenting goals, values and dreams to the table and I help remove the blocks that may be preventing them from getting the most out of life or their parenting.

Without judgement, I gently guide, support, and empower my clients to find their own solutions and lead them to see that they too can feel optimistic, courageous, and confident about moving forward on a life path of joy, peace, and fulfilment with a sense of renewed hope, empowerment and a love for themselves, others, and life in general.

All I need from my clients is a keen willingness and readiness to take charge and have the desire and commitment to transform their lives…and for parents, the lives of their children, in the most amazing ways – and to live the life of their dreams!

I look forward to being of service to you!

Consciously blooming always…

Pam ♥

In a nutshell, I want to help others transform their lives – because they deserve it! My vision is to passionately motivate and empower others to connect with their inner selves and to live abundant, fulfilling, and extraordinary lives; to empower parents with transformative guidance and unwavering support, fostering harmonious family dynamics and nurturing home environments where every parent feels equipped, confident, and deeply connected in their journey of raising resilient, empathetic, and fulfilled children, and where children thrive emotionally, intellectually, and socially in life – changing lives, across the world, one at a time!

My mission is to utilise my passion, commitment and powerful modern techniques, therapies, and transformational coaching skills to inspire and guide my clients to unleash their unlimited potential, empowering them to live abundant and beautiful lives; and guiding and empowering parents to confidently raise children who are emotionally resilient in nurturing, peaceful, happy and positive family environments, while upholding values, boundaries, and limits